The Monday Lift

11/10/25: Future Self Decisions, what 3x training means, youth sports

Members working out on rowers with coach

Make decisions your future self would be proud of.

It’s a simple filter — but a powerful one.

Imagine sitting down with your future self — 10, 20, maybe 30 years from now. They’ve lived with the consequences of every habit you’ve repeated, every shortcut you’ve taken, every excuse you’ve justified… and every discipline you’ve kept.

What would they say to you?

Would they thank you for building strength instead of avoiding discomfort?
Would they appreciate the daily walks, the consistent sleep, the effort to eat real food?
Would they nod at your decision to train even when it wasn’t convenient?

Or would they ask why you didn’t start sooner?

Future you isn’t impressed by your intentions. They only live with your outcomes. And they don’t care how “busy” things were — they care whether you showed up.

So today’s question is simple:
Would future you be proud of how you lived this week?

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Raise your hand if you’ve ever trained 3x in a week. Now keep it up if you’ve done that consistently for a month, a year, 5 years. Most people focus on the “what” when in reality, that only matter if you have the discipline to do it consistently.

Youth sports has turned into a complete failure. It’s turned children into investments and put all the emphasis on performance in place of enjoyment. And what’s the impact on their chance on becoming a “pro”? Pretty much zero.

Have a great week!

David